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Saturday, 7 September 2013

The Ending of A Relationship.

I know many of you will have probably had a girlfriend or boyfriend before, or maybe you just have feelings for someone. I'm here to give you advice on breaking up with someone, being the one who was "dumped" and telling someone how you feel.

YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE? 
-The worst thing you can do is keep it to yourself. Keeping your feelings about someone to yourself is like bottling up all your emotions, they explode eventually and probably not in a god way.
-Tell a trusted friend and/or family member and get their opinion. Tell them about the guy or girl you like and why you like them.
-Eventually, you should tell the certain person how you feel. You honestly don't have anything to lose, yes it might be embarrassing and upsetting if they don't feel the same way. But just imagine what could happen if they do feel same way. 

YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE.
-Okay, do NOT lead a person on because you're afraid that if you break up with them, you'll hurt their feelings. EVENTUALLY, they will get over it. 
-Say it to their face - there's nothing worse than being broken up with via text message (or via being blocked on Facebook and never spoken to again like I had happen to me).
-Give them a reason why you want to end, if you don't have a reason; tell them exactly that. 
-Once you've said the dreaded words, don't hang around. Give the person space.

YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED.
-I know it's hard - I've been there several times. 
-Have a cry, watch romantic movies and eat chocolate.
-Dance around in your bedroom, hang out with your girls, or if you're a male - hang out with the boys. Do something to take your mind off your ex. 
-Don't be upset about it for too long, you'll get yourself stuck in a rut. 
-Don't message the person. If you think you're about to message them, call your friend instead.
-Move on, forget about them, there's plenty more BETTER fish in the see.
-You are beautiful. You are wonderful. There's someone great out there waiting for you.

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